The OM pursued divorce because he doesn't have respect for marriage... his own nor for yours... he's clearly still in a childlike predator state and hasn't made a grown up commitment to community.. children like this are a serious threat to the stability of a community...
I honeslty believe they belong in jail... they are no better than burglars or vandals...
He didn't fight for his own marriage he isnt' going to pursue youw wife long term when things get ugly there either.. he WILL run again... marriage takes work.. u ntil you realize that and roll up your sleeves, you really haven't made an honest commitment yet... the wedding and the I Do's are just that... a ceremony... the REAL covenant comes years later when someone wants out...
