Randy: Maybe its time that you back off on the sleep arrangements, affection etc and not let her know how much it means to you. Right now she knows your number and knows exactly what you want . . . hard as it may be make act as if you don't care when you get it. Let her be the one to initiate it and really want it. Otherwise I forsee it turning into okay you want it now I gave it to you are you happy? I hope that isn't how it turns out but if she isn't ready and she feels like she is pushed into doing something to get you off her back (and I'm not saying you are standing over her like you are in heat) but you know what I mean - it may not be as beautiful as you envision it in your mind. Just my 2 cents Missy