You are absolutely right about the age demographics. The oldest one is OM at 41 and already divorced.
W feels a connection for that- his M lasted 2 years as well and he was the one that sought D.
It is amazing- I am the only one left in this and the only one w/ the faintest hope, respect, or reason to be proud of my M.
The other problem is the recovery crowen (I am also in recovery) they are all so in to personal happiness and integrity- hense they tell me a M takes 2 and you are just one.
