When you resort to emotional principle, you are resorting to your WS's tools - impulse as good judgement

If you sit back and imagine the empty home... the WS walks in, deafened by silence and empty space... unmowed lawns, old broken toys laying about on the floor left behind... empty GAPS on teh floor where items were taken away... man, it just goes right for the throat...

AND it shows a powerful message to the public... that man's cheating drove a woman AND her chidlren out of their home... appaling!

If a AS leaevs nad the other spouse moves in anyways, it just shows their character...

I strongly believe a big part of affair busting is a deep exploration of the integrity of your mate... its a deep inquiry into who they are inside... what they are made of... they will eventually RISE or FALL... and either way you will be teh winner, you will have them back, or you will know you did the right thing by extracting them from your life and those of your children... its a win win

Last edited by Allen A; 02/23/10 08:21 PM.