I KNOW what I want...my marriage to work but that is not my decision it's HIS.
Really?
You only answered the first half of the question. The second part is: What are you doing about it?
yes, luv, what are you doing about it.
I have only seen a glimmer of the right steps you need to take in the path to try to save your M. everything your H does is expected. only you can control your situation, and you can either control it to make it worse, or make it better.
which do you want? and are you REALLY going to make the steps to get you there?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
