Originally Posted By: Drew
BobbiJo,

If it only took two meetings and some paperwork, you should be entitled to a big chunk of your retainer back.


I anticipate that! smile Actually my atty, Rob, told me when I delivered him the signed Decree to wrap things up, "You know, you basically negotiated your own settlement. And you did a really great job."

That's pretty cool! My H agreed to give me:

25% of his bonuses for the next 8 years, unless I remarry first

Alimony = 20% of his take-home pay for the next 8 years, unless I remarry first

Neither of things were legally necessary, but HE offered them...so I took them! smile

Nik if you want a copy of my 'draft' just so you know what bases to cover (holidays/visitations/insurance/mortgages/etc) I can email it to you...


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17