We dicussed the sleeping arrangements last night and after being apart for so long and leeting the kids sleep where they were we are working on that.She gets alittle closer everyday.I said something yesterday and she joked 'well theres 6 more months until you get some and I said well like that was going to happen anyway and she said I might be closer than I think.Things are changing alot and thats good.See there is hope for everyone here.