I agree w/ you 100%. The prob here is W has said that she's unhappy in our M and that she is doing what she wants to be happy.
Everyone is supporting her in this- it is UNREAL. I am not abusive, we're only yelled at oneanother 1 time in 6 years and she tells them the same lies she tells me- I am the only one who was able to uncover the truth.
I am fighting w/ both hands tied behind my back. I feel like there is really nothing that can be done- the people I know can't keep their mouths shut and W's friends are exclusively W's friends.
At this point W is sick of the stress- I believe that I am in denial of the fact that my M is over
