Unfortunately- I have busted a few A's now. MIL has been in town now for 1 month and she refuses to see me. I have no idea what version other people are getting of our sitch- truth is it's been stressful. I have caught W sleeping at OM1's house, busted the A to OM1 and his GF, and alas to MIL. W adamantly denies the 1st A. MIL has repeatedly told me it's between me and W, that she doesn't want to be involved.
W has disclosed the source of my info, and MIL does not approve. I have explained the lying and manipulations to her, she does not care.
Once more- MIL has refused to visit me since she's been here, but has sat down to dinner w/ W and OM2. WTF!?