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This is a followup to my old thread: Semi-OT: MWD on Twitter and Facebook

I decided it needed a better name.

Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Do couples need to have a shared definition of what it means to be loving? http://bit.ly/bBIBft


EDIT: Sorry, the link is broken; the video was removed by the user.

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M: 17 years T: 20 years
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8/28/10: Wife moved out
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From the intro to the earler thread...

MWD posts some interesting articles and affirmative comments at Facebook and Twitter. Might be worth checking out:

https://twitter.com/divorcebusting
http://www.facebook.com/DivorceBusting?ref=nf
http://www.facebook.com/micheleweinerdavis?ref=nf

Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Happy Valentine's Day, Everyone. Do one thing to surprise your spouse today without comment. See if s/he notices. Appreciate the good today and be thankful for what's working in your life. Love to you all!! From the Divorce Busting to YOU.


Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Research shows that except in extreme cases of abuse children want their parents together.


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Why do people wait until they are thinking divorce before they call a therapist or relationship coach?


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Marriage Goal-setting rule #1: Describe what you want to accomplish rather than what your spouse is doing wrong.


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
When dealing with infidelity, know that it's normal to feel a whole range of emotional responses. Expect your feelings to vacillate.


Gee, ya think? smile


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Verbal ability, comprehension, and language skills - all right brain functions - simply come more naturally to women. Take this into consideration before getting mad at him for his lack of communication skills.


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Be conscious about making more eye contact with your spouse today. Eyes are the window to the soul.


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Michele posted a YouTube video that addresses some questions about having a spouse who is having a mid-life crisis:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WHvV55IpAxk


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
It is impossible for a therapist to check her values, morals, or perspectives at the door. I come with a pro-marriage bias.


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1/13/10: MC started
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8/28/10: Wife moved out
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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
You most certainly can change other people, but you must begin by changing your own actions first


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."
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