Do couples need to have a shared definition of what it means to be loving? http://bit.ly/bBIBft
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Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Happy Valentine's Day, Everyone. Do one thing to surprise your spouse today without comment. See if s/he notices. Appreciate the good today and be thankful for what's working in your life. Love to you all!! From the Divorce Busting to YOU.
Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Research shows that except in extreme cases of abuse children want their parents together.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Why do people wait until they are thinking divorce before they call a therapist or relationship coach?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Marriage Goal-setting rule #1: Describe what you want to accomplish rather than what your spouse is doing wrong.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
When dealing with infidelity, know that it's normal to feel a whole range of emotional responses. Expect your feelings to vacillate.
Gee, ya think?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Verbal ability, comprehension, and language skills - all right brain functions - simply come more naturally to women. Take this into consideration before getting mad at him for his lack of communication skills.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Be conscious about making more eye contact with your spouse today. Eyes are the window to the soul.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
It is impossible for a therapist to check her values, morals, or perspectives at the door. I come with a pro-marriage bias.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
You most certainly can change other people, but you must begin by changing your own actions first
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement