Right.. I understood fundamentally what you were saying.

I was just trying to say (in a terrible fashion, lol!) that sometimes people think an ordeal is easier due to a profession.

My sister was a nurse for years. When my dad was sick in the ICU she was very comfortable being in the ICU wing. The machines, the beeping of the machines that never ended, being surrounded by illness and death, the codes, the urgency did not frighten her. It FRIGHTENED ME! It was a totally foreign environment to me.

And while she was sad to be there because it was our dad, the surroundings didn't phase her much.

So while you understand how the law works and what will take place and that is not scary to you as you are familiar with the process it does make you sad. You may not be scared to see a court document like I was but you are sad for the reasons it exists.

I was just saying I can understand how tough that would be!