So last night my wife tells me she is going to a fundraiser with the people from work.. She is doing a bike ride for cancer and her office is going to it.
Well, the problem I have with her attending this fundraiser is that I have suspected a possible EA with this OM from work. I told her point blank that I dont like him and dont want her anywhere near him. Now, I know he works it the same office so hard for me to enforce this. I am getting such anxiety over this. I feel I need to spy on her and see where w is going for sure. I was on her FB page and one of the girls made a comment about tonights event so I know there is an event. Anyway, should I be stressing out over this, something I cannot control ? How should I be acting towards here when she comes home? Part of me tells me that I should tell her that I wasnt happy with her going do to the disrespect that she went to a place where the OM was at as well... Maybe I am making too much of this???
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)