Again this is Penny Tuppy's advice... she calls it Protection Phase.... she has no qualms about abaondoning a poisoned home to protect yourself and your children from an abusive and selfish affair...
It sends a VERY powerful message :
You want her, this is what you have... HER, and ONLY her...
An empty house, dust, scattered boxes and untended lawn... the DEAFENING SILENCE of the damage an affair does to a HOME.. it gives him a GLIMPSE of his FUTURE...
Why would you NOT PLAY that card? Think really hard on how poweful an impact that migth have and tell me honeslty if that isn't a heavy hitter...
IN MY HOME it was the MOST powerful thing I did.. pack up and make arrangements to live elsewhere while ALL the TIME protesting the affair and expressing my desire to PROTECT us and OUR relationship from the affair.... powerful stuff...
