Trying to move on

[awest1217]

Good break through. THis needs to be about you and you changing for you and not for W. When you start changing and liking who you are, and you are comfortable and happy with the new you, that will show to W, and I know you aren't for hope right now, but maybe she will see those changes and finally see how happy you are and wonder why or notice the changes and want to be apart of your life more. The big thing about DB is not changing to save your marriage, but changing to save you. Really think about that and take what you have said to heart. Stop worrying about W, but instead make changes for you.