Hey elwood, Everything is cruising along,not getting to see her much this week.Because she is at class till late for work.I told her last night that if she wanted to talk I would and that I would really like to get closer,she just said she didn't know when she would be ready for that but that she is living at the house and thats a start.So I guess thats what I will live with for now.It sounds like you are in a position to at least open her mind up and it will also show her that you are there.I know she said not to take 2 days off but you might think about going to work for a little while and then spending the rest of day there for her.If she is out of hospital maybe bring her lunch or if she is still in keeping her company.Good luck