I know this sounds harsh and please don't take this the wrong way. But I am surprised by your answer. In reading your posts lately it lead me to believe that you were done with the M/R.
If you want the M to work, it is half your decision too. You can't control H but you can certainly control your actions.
I only want the best for you and your family. And you are the only one who knows what the best may be.
(((Luv)))
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning