Pointing out clearly and concisely to the PUBLIC at LARGE
1. I want my marriage and my family 2. I must protect that from WS
Sends a poweful message to the WS they can't help but see... As LONG as they KNOW their spouse is working FOR the marriage and the leaving is to PROTECT the family and EVERYONE ELSE knows that, this is a HUGE pressure to END CONTACT
IF a AS just leaves and says nothing, and tells eveyrone else nothing, YES it will look like she has walked out on him... this is NOT the message we want to send...
An emtpy home has a very powerful effect on a person.. the guilt ridden in particular...
Her H knows he's doing damage, he just can't control his impulses without help... This is a huge nudge to show him what he is losing... sitting at his home waiting for him to show up and leave again is NOT CONSTRUCTIVE
