You all have fine points and have been a god send to me.XW moved some more clothes to the house this weekend so I am making room for those and cleaning out all her old drawers for her to have again.It's strange because I am happier than I was but know I could be even happier,I mentioned that we could talk anytime she wanted and that we should work on our communication. I don't regret where i am at right now,just wish it was complete.