When you LEAVE the HOME and EMPTY it of your things and tell the WS that you will return when your marriage is SAFE again it has an OVERWHELMING impact on the WS...
Empty homes resonate in the heat of the WS... they can SEE what they are doing... they can SEE they are driving their family away...
Why sit there in the home .. it just sends a message "we will be here waiting for you when you decide to come back..."