Good advice from folks GW.. I know you want to give W space and I can understand her saying Im stuck with you all day I need space away to get my head together and now youre not on the computer I go in the basement.. BUT you are getting better at calling her out on stuff, next time she heads off for space howabout setting a time on it, "ok hun have an hours peace and quiet and I'll come give you a shout at say pm when Ive put the kettle on" it might not be as full on as the others might like but it wont start a fight whilst you test the ground the first time.. If it works you can set a more forceful boundary!
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