Did your W have the courtesy or respect to sit down with you, talk about dates, childcare and so on BEFORE she starting planning this trip in her head or did she let you know after the fact?
Actually she did. I even had the chance to probably veto the trip, but I didn't. Maybe because she played me and pulled the right strings, but at the time in my mind it was about not trying to control her.
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I think it would be good for you to leave your work persona at work and focus on a more relaxed atmosphere at home for YOU.
This is/was great advice and I have been trying hard. You really opened my eyes the last time you visited by thread with this advice. I truly appreciate it. I haven't gotten there yet, but have made significant strides.
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Don't push her but let YOUR actions speak for themselves.
Could you expand a little, explain a little more please? Thanks
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
