Sandi - wow, didn't see it that way on ignoring her comments about losing track of time...thanks for the wakeup. I looked it at as you all have advised me on not being controlling, but you are right, it is disrespecting me and she knows it. Absolutely, that is not how I want it to be. That one is easy to change. Thank you, thank you.

And Sandi, thanks mainly to your blunt approach over and over, I have been calling her out a ton on many things. And you are right, 9 times out of 10 it works. I have not always used the firm voice, maybe I should, but I guess I have reserved that for the open/blatant disrespect/treatment, but maybe I need to do it more for a little of everything.


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11