Almost every person that comes on this site that has been left or is losing their spouse says that "I have been in depression" and didn't realize it UNTIL my spouse wanted out..
Suddenly they are doing everything they can to show the WS that they are no longer in depression...
Think about that. Your wife may not even try to fight her depression until she thinks it turns you off and you may be letting her go.
Be happy just the way things are in your life and let HER come to you.
