I asked because that seemed to be similar to your suggestion. She will have to initiate the suggeston you have. Perhaps the real question is how does Randy encourage the behavior. Because I have no clue.
(A brief aside, Missy. I have been thinking about you quite a bit lately. It is because the situation in which I will be soon - X and OM living with my kids. I know you have stayed at your ex's. I am a bit nervous about it. But I do want to be the class act in the situation. So if you have words of wisdom, I am all ears.)
Randy,
You are correct about the color of the cheerleading outfit. Missy is a great looking woman in any color!