No matter how good or bad the living situation might be, having family to fall back on in times of need is great. Definitely something to be grateful for, so SIL does have a point.
But living with people, even family, isn't always easy. Especially family sometimes LOL.
Give it time. Don't pressure her to move in next door. It is nice to give her that option if she wants some space though.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2