Acceptable contact while GD?

[SweetCyborg]

What's an acceptable level of contact? We only discuss practical matters by email, hardly any phone contact.

She asked me (via email) about a bill, and then if I slept OK.

I don't want to say too much, but I WOULD very much just like to let WAW know that just because I'm uncharacteristically incommunicado, doesn't mean I don't care, just that I'm giving us both much-needed space? Too much? I so want to reach out.

I know she still loves me and I her, but she feels hopeless that the M will ever improve and that I have not fully forgiven the PA from two+ years ago (I'm still working on it)or never will.

She's my BEST friend and I hers and we both know it. I don't want her to think I don't care...I'm pretty sure she KNOWS that I do, but b/c of her depression will tend to 'go there' (I suck, he hates me, I'm a loser, but I just can never work it out with him, yada yada yada)

Thanks!