Thanks for your words of encouragement, it really helps and I think you really nailed it as far as what my W is thinking and the way she is acting. So I am going to stay the course and keep doing my 180's, GAL's and moving forward. In fact this weekend I am going skiing for 3 days with some friends. I am not going to sit around here and pine away for her. I do still want her back but water does not run uphill so if she "D" bombs me today, so be it.
I will tell her that I understand how she feels and I dont want to stand in the way of her happiness but that is not what I want. I am also going to lay down some ground rules about her coming over here and taking what she wants w/o talking to me about it first , she crossed the line on that one!
I am also going to talk $$ and the common pot that she is currently enjoying, its time she takes some responsibility for her actions.
Thanks for listening and offering suggestions.
NSD
Me 47 WAW 48 No Kids M-20y T-24y B#1 2-20-09 B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907
