Good to see youre getting lots of useful advice from OP..
My H certainly followed the WAS/MLC first parts to a T.. but he did stop before an A, and as I now know he had depression, if not 100% when he left by the time he started to think about coming back.. He also went to see his brother because he had no connection with his father, he died when H was ten.. his was a childhood dominated by very strong women, and of course Im quite a feisty lassy too! Think he just should have learned to say No way back but never did, and the frustrations just finally boiled over.. I always took it as if he didnt say other wise he agreed but perhaps I shouldnt have been so presumptive!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!