Here's a thread where you can work on your goals (DBing goals as defined in DR):
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1939171#Post1939171

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.