Holy Crap! I'm a fella, ten years your senior; but, your story is my story!
I am married to a woman and together we have put our children through much sorrow and suffering. I am glad you are both on board (or at least he is halfheartedly) to fix things now, *before* you have children as I do.
I want to save my marriage too. I feel you there. It's very difficult to do everything on your own if your partner doesn't care, though.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation