Thanks everyone Elwood,XW was seeing someone and I think she thought it was meant to be but he told her no way was he leaving his family and to leave him alone,that was a shortly after our D.get this after I brought the food from her house she came in the kitchen and said look what I got,she had picked up some charms for her bracelet,one for each of the girls and and 1 she liked and yes a fire helmet for me and it's for her bracelet,has got to mean something.Then this morning I was shaving in the bathroom in my shorts and in she walks with just her bra on top on.I have been trying to give her privacy and not push anything that might make her uncomfortable.It was quite a surprise but I somehow kept my cool.Missy,you're cheerleading outfit,well I don't think anyone would notice the color,if you know what I mean. As for conseling,I think as strongly as she is against it for any reason she would still not go for it,she would say look what we have done on our own,etc.Good things come to those that wait,hang tough everyone,it will be you're turn
