Randy: I'm so happy for you! I know it seems like a millimeter of a step asking for the massage to you but for her it could be a huge step. Sometimes you hear about the various techniques psychologists or therapists use where you lay on the bed and just look into each others eyes - you don't speak - you are not allowed to touch each other - do this for 15 minutes. The next day the same but maybe you hold hands and continue on this process to slowly build up the desire that you both have for each other.
What color outfits would you like your cheerleading team to be wearing????? We will comply!