Thanks everyone,We were D 2 years ago next month and seperated 1 year before the D.She had multiable health and female issues and for a long time I didn't even want to see her.We have been seeing each other since 4-1-03 and she has been staying there since I got back from my elk trip on 9-29-03.It all takes time and no one can ever give up hope,you have to be happy or at least act like it.Everyone has a chance