I know accidents happen, it's just the circumstances surroundning the accident. I'm not one of those people that would run to DCFS every time a child got hurt. Kids play hard and fall hard and do get hurt, but she cannot watch four kids and run a v'ball practice. She always said she could and we would argue about it, that she enjoyed helping at school(this was before the super,BTW), and she could always see the kids and they would be fine. Like I said, maybe this will wake her up some.
The snooping is kind of at a standstill right now. I am 99% sure most of the contact takes place on cell phone. She has a track phone so I can't get records to it. I am not obsessing about OM right now, over that. It is what it is and to me, would not be any worse if she was sleeping with him. It will all have to be discussed at some time, but now is not the time.
