My daughter lives with her husband raising two children with another on the way. My daughter lived with us from when she was 12 years old until she turned 18,she is now 29 years old(My daughter lived with me when I meet my wife.My daughter and I lived alone together for 6 years.I had full custody from previous marriage) I kept the discovery of the affair to myself until my wife said she filed for divorce. My wife and daughter seemed to have a close relationship but by this time my wife had distanced herself from both my daughter and the rest of my family including our own son. My daughter didnt understand why my wife had stopped talking with her. The sharing of what I knew did help to shed light on her behavior. Now my wife blames both me and my daughter for our failed marriage, she maintains my priorities were with my daughter and not her. She blames me for her having an affair. My wife is jealous of my daughters close relationship with me. Sounds complicated now that I write it down... I mostly worry about our son and how all this is affecting him. I love both of my children equally and would do whatever I can for them... It does seem that my wife demands all of my attention now and then complains that I am not letting her breath and I keep her in a box. If I spend time with either son or daughter I then am told I am trying to be their best friends. I do believe I have just described the insanity I have accepted.........Thanks for listening......
