Vacillating husband

[talia]

Ruined,
I'm sorry you have been SO alone on here! I think the reason you aren't getting the feedback is because you are doing SO well. I know that doesn't help you... but at least you know you aren't being maliciously ignored.

You are doing GREAT! My suggestion would be to continue going dark - that's working well for you; but also to try and stop reading H's behavior. Do you have your goals - what are they? Post them here and then we can help you evaluate his responses based on your goals - action oriented review. The rest is just speculation.

You ARE seeing results. Now its time to pin down what you want out of this.

I'll stop back - -promise!

T