Puppy, Thank you so much. Is what I'm planning on saying, what I should be saying? "Your relationship with this OW is hurting me and the rest of the family. When your done with her and agree to NC, we can talk" then I plan on walking away, and not waiting for his response.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10