Well I guess II had reached a point to where I got locked out.had a good weekend except for a little tif she had when I said something about it would be nice to get at least a hug.She said maybe I should go to the apt. tonight I said whatever she wanted to do but don't make threats because you don't want to talk about something.She stayed the and everything was fine the next day.Shes telling me what goes on in her day and if she has to do something for work and might be late getting home from work etc.She came home for lunch today and asked me to rub her back so being the nice guy I am,I did.A new day ,a new adventure.
Hi randy, everyday is a new adventure. But remember one thing my friend. You and your ex are living in the same house. You have everyday a chance too show her how you feel. Your patiece is paying off. Stay the course.
Well last night XW and I were making grocery list and she ask me to get some boxes and go by her apt and get the food that was there and bring to my house.I didn't make a big deal out of it.This morning I ask her how much of the food she wanted me to move and she said I just as well bring all of it.I'm thinking this might be a good sign.Oh yes and she ask me for another massage last night. I do not jump up and down in her presence but I smile just a little more.
Randy, I am so jealous of you. She has all but came right out and said you two are back together. She has moved back in. People do get back together. Randy I don't want to bring up bad memories, but could you answer me one question. Was your ex seeing anyone else while you two were apart.
elwood, I'm jealous too!!!!! Randy how long do this all take??? but I am happy for you, Randy, I guess all things are possible--if you want it bad enough
Thanks everyone,We were D 2 years ago next month and seperated 1 year before the D.She had multiable health and female issues and for a long time I didn't even want to see her.We have been seeing each other since 4-1-03 and she has been staying there since I got back from my elk trip on 9-29-03.It all takes time and no one can ever give up hope,you have to be happy or at least act like it.Everyone has a chance
Randy: I'm so happy for you! I know it seems like a millimeter of a step asking for the massage to you but for her it could be a huge step. Sometimes you hear about the various techniques psychologists or therapists use where you lay on the bed and just look into each others eyes - you don't speak - you are not allowed to touch each other - do this for 15 minutes. The next day the same but maybe you hold hands and continue on this process to slowly build up the desire that you both have for each other.
What color outfits would you like your cheerleading team to be wearing????? We will comply!
