Some days I think I've really screwed all of this up by trying to be dark or NC. Our communication is so very poor right now, I am sure it causes his anger to flare.
I don't think so. His anger would flare no matter what you did.
Quote:
I sent him TM yesterday that bank called and wanted him to call back. He answers "what in the He** is that about?" I say, I don't know, I can try to call, but they asked for you. I wrote: I know I haven't made any unusual charges. He answers: Neither have I.....I answer: I know we aren't maxed out.....so I was left thinking, he thinks I'm accusing him of making unusual charges.....but really, I was just relaying a message. They usually only call if they see unusual activity on our card....meant NOTHING by my text.....and they asked that he call, not he or I......but can't explain that IN A TEXT. I later send TM asking if he wants me to try to call and he answers: they just wanted to sell us a home equity loan. UGGGHHHHH...
I guess you would have been better off staying NC and not sending him the text message. What do you think?
