I don't remember if I have asked you this before, but is he still in contact with the other woman?
Hi NOPkins, as far as I know she's not a customer anymore and they don't speak. But what do I know? it took over a year of him seeing her regularly before I was told about it only because he was seen with her by one of my family friends. When he came home I requested that he no longer work for her but he refused to do that instead worked for at least another season before she may have stopped his services. Supposedly during that time he would call and let her know when he'd be there so she could not be home while the yard was being serviced. A bunch of BS if you ask me. I wouldn't be totally surprised if I took his keys one night (while he's asleep on the couch) and drove down to his shop and took a look in his safe and found a recent b-day card or something.
Also, did the two of you workout the issues in your marriage that contributed to the marriage being weak for an affair? no, h just basically took the stand that he had been under stress and made a mistake.
I am sorry that you are still hurting.
I'm sorry to but don't know what to do about it anymore.
