It is destructive and immature to introduce women into the lives of our children that are 'passersby'. THAT...I think is inexcusable.

Letting go of what we had is so very difficult. Accepting that someone else has taken our place is even more difficult. But...if we see value in our own lives and do our best to avoid being a victim or continually finding blame within ourselves, it gets easier to go forward.

The tools that we used in the past were given to us as kids. We learn and, hopefully, get better tools to work with. You can and WILL fall in love again TRUSTING...when you are ready to do so.

Supporting you.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;