WAW now pregnant.....not mine

[MarkG]

Working on the R is good, but don't move back in right away. It'll be a slow process. As for another man's child, only you can decide if you can raise him/her. Of course I would have rather my SD was mine, but after a few months of having her around I could hardly imagine life without her. Now after the separation I do have a life without her, and that's the part about it that sucks. Most of our friends didn't even know she wasn't mine biologically. That was a mutual decision my W and I made as well. All you have to do is decide what is going to help you and the R with your W. It's not a decision you have to make now, take your time and really think about what you want & how you want it.