I'm not sure that you will/ won't end up with your current house. I think the FIGHT will help you more than the results. Take a few steps in that direction and see what happens.
You always have - a very fabulous - fall back plan in building new.
You may end up with the rental property AND new. And remember - the lawyer is right that the affair doesn't factor in legally. But I think we all know that those character flaws do factor in on a subjective level.
Whatever you decide to do we all support you immensely, you are a pillar of strength right now!
(((aver)))
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