I am honestly looking to have the M that w and I dreamed about.
I have the kids either Saturday thru Wednesday morning or Sunday through Wednesday morning, depending on the week.
We agreed to split time with the kids 50/50. This was her idea b/c she was 4 when her Parents Divored and didn't like the fact that she saw her dad only on the weekends.
Our kids goto day care Monday and Tuesday and her parents take a day to watch them Wand Th. She is off Fridays from work so she has them to herself.
If my W asked about my IC again would it be OK for me to say something like this? -
"My last few sessions have really uncovered an issue with myself that caused our marriage not to thrive. I am taking the neccessary action to got the help I need so I can be a happier person."
As you said earlier, it won't mean anything to her if I tell her b/c it wouls sound like another attempt to get her back.
I do not want to make that mistake again.
I do want her to honestly believe my actions are sincere.
thanks
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