I guess there are two roommates now. It's just the long standing roommate that he "is annoyed with."
The way I fould out was in a round-a-bout way; he was telling a story about roommate 1 cleaning up, but he didn't know for sure til "Fred" showed up at 8:30am and he asked him. I was like "Why is Fred going to the house at 8:30am?" H "Well, he's got a girlfriend, so he must have stayed the night there." !?!? I was so surprised I blurted out "You mean to say Fred lives there TOO?!? Well Fred has to go!!"
H said "wow-you sure are getting demanding! and yes, of course Fred has to go."
This almost feels harder than when we first moved in together.
Guess I'm getting ahead of myself; we haven't even announced it and for all I know, he could rip the rug out from under me.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
