Just to catch you up- MIL has never been supportive- I have outed the prior EA/PA as often as I could, w/o so much as a reply from her.
I may just need to accept the fact that busting the A is not going to do anything b/c W doesn't believe there is anything wrong w/ it- she is going to file soon.
I agree that there is logic and justification in fighting for my M, I also believe that OM is a womanizer- it might just be that OM is who W wants to be w/- he is almost the polar opposite of me.
I feel that these boards help me- but the things I've done to out the A do not seem to help me in the least- i look like the STBX in full blown denial, and incapable of accepting the reality that is.
