Nothing stopping me from making an offer. But, I may lose some strategic advantage by showing my cards and her L won't negotiate outside mediation b/c "this is how he does it."
Who says you have to show ANY cards. Bluffing has been a way of winning a poker hand since the beginning of time.. Bluff her.. Her lawyer is obviously doing some bluffing and it seems to be working on you. Get the upper hand here.
Go for everything. All in. They need to see you getting strong, resolved and tough here. Your attitude should be the one she is taking. (look how her attitude is effecting YOU) Take charge.
