You need to regain control of your life....You are enabling him to control it at the moment. You have made one very good observation you are correctly on your own....if you focus on getting divorced you will still be on your own. What you need to be working on is STANDING on your own.
How did you do when your H was deployed before? Work on getting your mind set to think he is deployed (well his mind is at the moment) and treat your world the same. He is deployed and may or may not come back.....either way you need to stand on your OWN!
