Some mental housecleaning:

* My wife and I share various documents with each other on Google Docs; checklists for holiday shopping, date ideas and the like. Yesterday I unshared all of them to keep them to myself. I also took myself off of a couple of similar ones that my wife started.
* When I got home last night, my wife had cleared off the kitchen table and was eating dinner there. She said she didn't know if I was planning to cook for myself, but she cleaned up the kitchen for me anyway.
* Getting Back Together by Bettie Youngs and Masa Goetz is a very good read. It offers much of the same advice we've seen around here (detach from your spouse, learn to rediscover yourself, etc.) and talks about challenges in building a new relationship with your partner.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."