She claims, as she always has, she wants/needs to do something financial/bills on her own after relying on me 100% for 14+ years. She agreed to show me the details/usage whenever I request it. Thinking about setting up a schdule, either formally or informally.
But that does not merit a secret password from one's S. The only reason a W would have a secret pw was if she was keeping secrets. She can pay for her phone all by herself, but why a secret pw? That's crzy. And if you are refering to a formal/informal schedule about checking the phone.....that would be simply useless. If she is hiding something, you would need to wait until her guard is down then radomly check the phone when she's in the shower. I would be more ready to think the EA was over except for her "privacy" issues with the computer and phone......and her extreme mood changes. If the moods were more depressed, I would think she was going through withdrawal.....but the angry.....IDK. But I hope you are right and the fog is lifting.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
